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> Wedding Do's and
Don'ts
Invitations to
formal affairs will indicate what type of formal attire is expected to be
worn.
If the
Invitation says "Black Tie"
It is generally accepted that
"Black Tie" events require dressing formally. Take advantage of
this opportunity to truly look and feel your very best in a tuxedo. Today,
"Black Tie" means to dress formally, not specifically to wear a
black tie.
If the Invitation says "White Tie"
or "Full Dress"
You can step into the glittering evening
looking dashing and proper in a traditional tailcoat. Wear a white wing
collar shirt, a white pique vest, white tie, and black trousers accented
by the formal satin stripe. Complete your outfit with patent shoes.
If the Invitation says "Black Tie
Preferred"
Indicates that the host prefers guests to wear formal evening attire.
Black Tuxedo, White Dinner Jacket (mid-April through Labor Day) or a dark
contemporary style Tuxedo are acceptable (no Tailcoats). Non-formal Dress
Suits are also acceptable, but not preferred by the host.
If the Invitation says "Black Tie
Optional"
Is not as strong a statement for formal attire as "Black Tie" or
"Black Tie Preferred," yet formal dress is wholly appropriate
and acceptable. Styles may include Black Tuxedo, White Dinner Jacket
(mid-April through Labor Day) or a dark contemporary style Tuxedo (no
Tailcoats).
If the Invitation says "Black Tie
Invited"
Is a phrase appearing more frequently than "preferred" or
"optional." It is usually in the context of large gatherings of
civic or business groups, such as a dinner sponsored by the Chamber of
Commerce. It states that gentlemen attending are welcome to dress formally
if they would like, but it is not required. Styles for these affairs are
the same as for "Black Tie Optional."
If the Invitation says
"Semi-Formal"
In strict and very proper social circles, "Semi-Formal" means
"Black Tie." However, today, if a host wants his guests to wear
Black Tuxedos, he will generally use the phrase "Black Tie."
"Semi-Formal" allows any style of Tuxedo or Dinner Jacket. This
is where knowledge of your local community, common sense and good taste
come into play. For example, it would be more appropriate to dress
formally if the invitation were to a dinner party at the local country
club than if it were to a dance celebrating a local college football
victory. As a general rule, if a lady wears a floor-length gown, it is
appropriate for her escort to wear formal attire. If you are ever unsure
about how to dress, call the host or hostess for guidance in dressing for
the occasion.
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